Protect secret recipe by politely saying 'no' (2024)

Dear Abby: I have a cake recipe that I have perfected through time.

I get compliments on it and requests for the recipe every time I take one to any nonfamily gathering.

People often ask me to make these cakes for them for special occasions. I always tell them that I will need to charge them for it because the ingredients are expensive. No one has a problem with paying me.

I love to cook, and it gives me pleasure to see people enjoy something I have prepared. Because I use my recipe as another source of income -- albeit a small

one -- what can I say to those people who demand that they must have the recipe?

I usually evade the question by ignoring them -- which I know is rude -- but I don't know how to tell them "no" without seeming offensive and snobbish. Please help.

-- Frustrated Cook

Dear Frustrated: Saying no nicely shouldn't be difficult if you say it with a smile.

One way would be to say, "I'm sorry; I don't share this recipe, because it's a way I can earn extra money." That's not rude; it's the truth.

Another smiling response might be "Coca-Cola isn't giving away its recipe, and neither am I."

Dear Abby: I go to church with a woman who is generous and means well, but she likes to give away her old hand-me-down clothing.

Recently, she gave me two old dresses that fit me, but I wouldn't be caught dead in them. I'm 15, and she doesn't understand that.

I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so when she asked whether they fit and whether I liked them, I told her they did and they were pretty.

My mom is planning to donate the dresses to charity. But now the woman is saying she wants to give me more of her old dresses. I don't know how to handle this.

-- Secondhand Teen

Dear Secondhand: Your neighbor is both kindhearted and generous.

She also seems to be into recycling, which is a good thing.

Before you turn your nose up at what she is offering, please consider that vintage clothing can be valuable. Some of it is "classic" and can be worn regardless of the current fad.

Members of the Hollywood crowd and fashionable New York society know this. I often see their photos in magazines wearing some of the marvelous items they have collected.

If your neighbor's dresses are really not your style, however, then you should be honest and graciously tell your neighbor that they're not for you.

Dear Abby: After you have made your selection at a restaurant, what should you do with the menu?

Do you place it closed directly in front of you or hanging halfway off the table?

-- Confused in Denver

Dear Confused: If the server has not yet taken my order, I close the menu and place it beside me on the table. (The closed menu signals to the server that I have made my choice.)

After my order is taken,

I hand the menu to the server.

Write Dear Abby at Universal Press Syndicate, in care of The Columbus Dispatch, P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, Calif. 90069; for a reply, enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope. Or visit www.DearAbby.com.

Protect secret recipe by politely saying 'no' (2024)

FAQs

How do I politely say no to sharing a recipe? ›

Dear Frustrated: Saying no nicely shouldn't be difficult if you say it with a smile. One way would be to say, "I'm sorry; I don't share this recipe, because it's a way I can earn extra money." That's not rude; it's the truth. Another smiling response might be "Coca-Cola isn't giving away its recipe, and neither am I."

How do you legally protect a recipe? ›

(An unpublished recipe can be protected under trade secret law, but that means all the chefs using it would have to sign nondisclosure agreements or noncompetition agreements, which are not always enforceable). A collection of recipes, as in a cookbook, can be protected.

How to keep your recipe secret? ›

Reasonable efforts to keep a recipe secret include creating agreements (e.g., Non-disclosure and Confidentiality agreements), as well as creating and enforcing policies and procedures between the owners, employees and others that may access the recipe.

What to say when someone asks for your recipe? ›

If someone asks at a party for the recipe for something you brought, just say "yeah, sure, whatever" and then quickly change the subject. And then don't give it to them.

How do you politely decline sharing food? ›

Try: saying 'no, thank you – but what I've had was delicious and I feel so well-fed, thank you! ' Make and maintain eye contact as you respond and use a firm/assertive tone. Someone may offer you food so they feel like a good host.

How to decline food without being rude? ›

Just use a simple “no thank you” or “I'll pass today”. Having healthy boundaries means you don't always have to give an excuse or a reason. If you feel comfortable, share about your health goals or food sensitivities as it might bring up awareness or good conversation.

Is it illegal to share a recipe? ›

Most recipes, however, include content beyond the ingredient list. Copyright protection does apply to any written text, photographs or videos accompanying that list of ingredients. For example, the headnotes and instructions on how to combine ingredients are protected by copyright.

How do you legally protect a product idea? ›

A patent is a legal document that gives the inventor exclusive rights to prevent others from making, using, or selling their invention for a certain period of time. The purpose of a patent is to encourage innovation by providing inventors with an incentive to invest in research and development.

How to protect your recipe from employees? ›

– Access Control: Limit access to the secret recipe or formulation to a few trusted employees. Use physical and digital security measures to prevent unauthorised access. – Employee Agreements: Ensure all employees with access to the secret recipe sign comprehensive non-disclosure agreements (NDAs).

How do I complain to the secret recipe? ›

Please reach out to Secret Recipe Customer Service at feedback@secretrecipe.com.my on feedback or enquiries.

Are secret ingredients legal? ›

Implemented in January 2021, the new law will force cosmetic and personal care companies to disclose potentially harmful ingredients to the California public.

At what point does a recipe become yours? ›

A recipe can usually be considered “original” if you have changed three or more major ingredients, or three or more steps in the recipe process, and have written everything in your own words.

How do you politely decline sharing a recipe? ›

If there's a recipe you truly don't want to reveal, just say warmly, "I'm very flattered you like it. However, it's been kept in the family for so long that I've promised myself not to divulge it. I'm sure you understand." You could then offer to give her a recipe that you like but don't feel protective about.

How do you say no when someone asks for food? ›

"Simply point out how delicious everything was but that you cannot eat more," Meier says. "I often compliment before I say no, 'The ham was incredible, but I can't fit even a bit more in! Thank you anyway.

How do I politely ask for a recipe? ›

Would you please share your recipe with me?” is one polite way to ask. Some people will straight up share their recipe. Other folks may tell you that it's a family recipe that they won't share.

How do you politely ask someone not to share something? ›

Tell them directly. Make sure you're clear and polite, not at all accusatory, and hopefully they'll understand. Explain how you trusted them with your private information and you'd appreciate it if they kept it to themselves, as you don't want anyone else but them to know.

How do you say no to sharing something? ›

10 different ways to say no
  1. Sadly, I have something else going on.
  2. I have another commitment.
  3. I wish I were able to.
  4. I'm afraid I can't.
  5. I don't have the bandwidth for that right now.
  6. I'm honored you asked me, but I simply can't.
  7. Thanks for thinking of me. ...
  8. I'm sorry, I'm not able to fit this in.
Jan 7, 2022

How do you politely refuse to share? ›

Here are some tips by psychiatrist Dr Sarthak Dave on how you can politely refuse someone with tips.
  1. Acknowledge the offer first. ...
  2. State your reasons for declining clearly. ...
  3. Keep your tone polite. ...
  4. Express empathy for rejecting the offer. ...
  5. You may suggest alternative solutions. ...
  6. End the conversation on a positive note.
Mar 27, 2024

How do you politely decline a number sharing? ›

  1. “How do you politely decline if someone asks your number?”
  2. I don't have to have a reason to not give someone my number, so I just say, “I don't give out my phone number,” and leave it at that.
  3. If they try to argue that they need my number for any reason, I might say, “give me YOUR number and if I need to, I'll call.”
Jul 8, 2023

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